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[vaxjedi]

*sigh* Times are dark



I don't like saying it, but I think the household is not viable any longer. The kids are generally taken care of, but the adults are miserable most of the time. I think we need to begin real plans for the two couples to go our seperate ways. I think that'll be best for everyone, even the kids.

I think we need to set a timeframe, like a year, for this. That way everyone can prepare.

I'm not sure how we're going to afford it, however. I'll need to save up a lot for first/last and security. And we'll need to find a place for $500/month at the most. Not sure we can find it, but we'll have to.

I don't like giving up, but there is nothing but pain in our future otherwise.

Now I just have to build up the courage to say this to Chris and Dawn. Thats going to be the real hard part.

Comments

[ororo.livejournal.com]

*hugs*

Best laid plans, etc. etc.

Good luck, and I think you, El & the kids will all be happier once it's a done deal.

[dandelion-diva.livejournal.com]

Sometimes, giving up is the best thing for everyone involved, and there's no dishonor in doing it.

*HUG*

Gesi

[kshandra]

I've been thinking that myself when I've talked to eleri recently.... I'll be praying for all of you, hon. *hugs*

[novapsyche.livejournal.com]

*hug* I understand some of the anguish you're going through. Ties can be hard to cut.

I'll be sending some thought-power-strength your way.

[xiombarg.livejournal.com]

I think you're doing the right thing, in light of Eleri's recent posts...

i'm behind you all the way

[laurelyn22.livejournal.com]

If you want help looking for a place, help moving..help doing anything at all.
Call on me, book my time.
I am your friend i am here for you.
$500 a month for a lil townhouse or a two bedrm apt is not a lot to ask. Don't aim higher than you can afford.
You've known this split was on the way. I've known it since not long after I first met you.
There will be a light after the dark times love.